‘Perfect’ AI Girlfriend could Disrupt Human Relationships

“The ‘perfect’ AI girlfriends could deepen loneliness and lead to dangerous societal consequences,” escalates Eric Schmidt, former CEO, Google.

There is a rise in the "perfect" AI (artificial intelligence) girlfriends or boyfriends. But the former Google CEO Eric Schmidt recently raised concerns about the potential psychological and societal impacts of advanced artificial intelligence, particularly AI-powered virtual companions designed to simulate romantic relationships. Schmidt warned that as these "perfect" AI girlfriends become increasingly realistic and personalized, they could deepen feelings of loneliness and disrupt human relationships.

"Imagine that the AI girlfriend, or boyfriend, is perfect... perfect visually, perfect emotionally. The AI girlfriend captures your mind as a man to the point where she takes over the way you're thinking," Eric Schmidt, 68, said in a podcast hosted by entrepreneur and NYU Stern School of Business professor Scott Galloway.

The possible challenges could include:

In countries already facing population decline, the preference for virtual partners could exacerbate demographic challenges.

As individuals retreat into AI-driven companionship, traditional community-building activities and human networks may weaken.

Companies might exploit lonely individuals by encouraging long-term dependence on paid AI services, prioritizing profit over well-being.

"You're obsessed with her. That kind of obsession is possible especially with people who are not fully formed," he further added.

Schmidt’s warning also calls for a closer examination of the ethical implications of creating AI that mimics human intimacy. Should there be boundaries in how AI interacts with users emotionally? What accountability should companies have if their products contribute to psychological harm or societal disruption?

The rise of "perfect" AI girlfriends represents a significant intersection of technology and human psychology. While they may provide comfort to some, Schmidt’s warning is a reminder that fostering real human relationships and addressing the root causes of loneliness remain vital in a rapidly evolving digital world.